We all have those days. When we feel a little bit better, we put off some things that need to get done to enjoy the break we desperately need.
Don’t feel guilty for taking those days to pamper yourself. You deserve it!
HOW TO HANDLE OPPORTUNITIES
|
When I was just starting to somewhat feel better (around month 11 of my illness), I still had more bad days than good days. I was able to run errands again and felt comfortable driving myself around. On one particular day, I drove my daughter to class, and while I was waiting for her, I started to feel better. I was outside, sitting on a bench, watching her drive arrows into the haystacks for her archery class. I took advantage of the opportunity and began walking around the park, admiring the greenery, smelling the beautiful flowers, and simply enjoying the air I was breathing. I took the rest of the day off from doing any work and went shopping for myself, walked around a park with my daughter and our dogs, and bought some delicious food. Once night fell, I knew this day wouldn’t last, so I decided to do something I wouldn’t be able to do on a bad day. I deep-cleaned everything! I knew I needed to clean for my own health and the health of my family, but on bad days, that was an impossible task to accomplish. Sometimes, when you are in the midst of a chronic illness, you don’t realize how important cleaning is to your health. So I did the most taxing thing for my body that I knew I could not do on hard days, and I felt amazing for accomplishing it. After this revelation of taking some of the more exhausting tasks off my plate on good days, I began to implement a plan of good-day activities and bad-day activities. I found it very useful for completing some of the harder tasks that took me a very long time to get to when I wasn't feeling my best. |
- Make a to-do list: Create a list of tasks you want to accomplish on your good day. Having a clear plan of what you want to achieve will help you stay focused and organized.
- Prioritize your tasks: Prioritize your tasks based on their importance and urgency. This will help you tackle the most important tasks first and ensure you make the most of your energy and focus.
- Break tasks down into smaller steps: If you have larger tasks to accomplish, break them down into smaller, manageable steps. This will help you avoid feeling overwhelmed and make progress towards your goals.
- Take breaks: While it's important to be productive on your good days, it's also important to take breaks and rest when needed. Listen to your body and take breaks when you feel your energy levels starting to dip.
- Practice self-care: On your good days, take some time to practice self-care. This can include things like exercise, meditation, or simply taking a relaxing bath. By taking care of yourself, you'll be better equipped to tackle the tasks on your to-do list.
CREATE A PLAN
A great way to start crossing off those to-do lists is to try to have a plan in place for good days and bad days. It's a good idea to write down what you'll do on these days and try to stick to it as much as possible.
Things to do on these days can include:
SOME THINGS TO DO ON GOOD DAYS:
- Go out in the sunshine
- Walk a bit longer
- See some friends
- Take a spa day
- Leave work early
- Do something you haven't been able to do in months that brings you joy
- Spend uninterrupted time with your kids and/or partner
- Leave your kids with a trusted person, and do nothing else but treat yourself
- DO ONE DIFFICULT THING THAT YOU CANNOT DO ON YOUR BAD DAYS, so your tasks don't overflow when a string of bad days hits
Sunshine
Sunshine provides numerous benefits to human health, including the synthesis of vitamin D, which is essential for strong bones and a healthy immune system. Sunlight exposure can also boost mood by increasing serotonin levels, and it helps regulate sleep-wake cycles. Additionally, sunlight can enhance cognitive function and may lower the risk of certain cancers.
Walking
Walking is a low-impact exercise that offers numerous benefits, including improved cardiovascular health, increased strength and flexibility, better mood and mental clarity, weight management, and reduced risk of chronic diseases. It's an easy and accessible way to incorporate physical activity into your daily routine and improve overall health and wellbeing.
Spa
Spa treatments offer numerous benefits, including relaxation, stress reduction, improved circulation, and relief from muscle pain and tension. Spa therapies such as massage, facials, and body wraps can also promote detoxification, rejuvenation, and improved skin health. Additionally, spas provide a peaceful environment for individuals to unwind and take a break from the demands of daily life.
Spending time with family
Spending time with family has numerous benefits, including strengthening emotional bonds, improving communication, building trust, promoting positive behaviors and values, reducing stress, increasing happiness and sense of belonging, and providing a support system during challenging times. It also creates lasting memories and helps to maintain a healthy work-life balance.
Treat yourself
Treating yourself can have numerous benefits, including reducing stress, boosting mood and self-esteem, increasing motivation, and promoting overall well-being. By giving yourself permission to indulge in something you enjoy, you can recharge your batteries, increase your happiness, and improve your quality of life.
SOME THINGS TO DO ON BAD DAYS:
- Take a longer, warm, and soothing bath
- Only do the minimal tasks required at work that day
- Sleep earlier
- Call someone for support
- Sit in nature
- Don't do more than your body asks for
- Take a day off of work if need be
- Cuddle your pets
- Snuggle with someone you love
- Stay off social media unless you’re watching funny or uplifting videos
- Don't engage in arguments
- Ignore criticism
- Eat very nutritious food
- Be very kind to yourself
Warm baths
Warm baths can help to soothe muscle tension, reduce stress and anxiety, improve sleep quality, and promote relaxation. The warm water can increase blood flow and circulation, which can help to relieve pain and inflammation. Additionally, warm baths can help to moisturize and soften the skin.
Sleep
Getting adequate sleep early can improve overall health and well-being. It helps regulate hormones, boost the immune system, improve mood and cognitive function, and reduce the risk of chronic diseases such as obesity, diabetes, and cardiovascular diseases. Additionally, it allows for better physical recovery and can enhance athletic performance.
Call for support
Calling someone for support can provide a number of benefits, including emotional support, practical advice, and problem-solving assistance. It can also help alleviate feelings of isolation, reduce stress and anxiety, and promote a sense of connection and belonging. Seeking support can also lead to new perspectives and insights, and may improve overall mental health and well-being.
Sit in nature
Sitting in nature can provide numerous benefits, including reduced stress and anxiety, improved mood and cognitive function, increased creativity and productivity, lower blood pressure and heart rate, and enhanced immune system function. Additionally, it can offer opportunities for physical activity, social connection, and exposure to natural light and fresh air.
Cuddle your pets
Cuddling pets can have numerous benefits, including reducing stress and anxiety, lowering blood pressure and heart rate, increasing feelings of happiness and wellbeing, strengthening the bond between pet and owner, and providing a sense of comfort and security. Additionally, it can release oxytocin, the "love hormone," which promotes social bonding and can have a calming effect on both the pet and the person.
Snuggle someone you love
Snuggling someone you love can provide many benefits, including:
- Increased feelings of intimacy and closeness
- Reduced stress and anxiety
- Release of feel-good hormones like oxytocin
- Improved mood and sense of well-being
- Better sleep and relaxation
- Enhanced communication and connection
- Greater feelings of safety and security.
Ignore criticism
Ignoring criticism can be beneficial in certain situations as it allows you to focus on your goals and stay motivated. It also helps you maintain your self-confidence and prevents you from being bogged down by negative opinions. Moreover, criticism can sometimes be unconstructive or motivated by envy or malice, so ignoring it can prevent you from being distracted by unwarranted negativity. However, it is important to discern constructive criticism from the rest, as it can be a valuable tool for personal growth and improvement.
Be kind to yourself
Being kind to yourself has numerous benefits, including:
- Improved self-esteem and self-worth
- Reduced stress and anxiety
- Increased motivation and productivity
- Better physical and mental health
- More fulfilling relationships
- Greater resilience and ability to cope with challenges
- Enhanced creativity and problem-solving skills
- Increased compassion and empathy towards others
- More balanced and positive outlook on life
- Overall greater sense of happiness and well-being.
WRAPPING IT ALL UP
Having a plan in place that reminds you what to do on these days can relieve you of any stress that has been spent worrying about how to get things done.
Once you know what to do on these types of days, you will feel much calmer and ready to take on the day, no matter which one it is.
Remember that good days don't come around every day, so make the most of them while you can. By being productive, prioritizing tasks, and taking care of yourself, you can make the most of your energy and achieve your goals.